Reveled

My vacation is drawing to a close, as is my celebration of Christmas. Last night we went to see my friend Jim perform in the Revels at Sanders Theater at Harvard University.  After the show we had a lovely dinner with Grace Ross where we discussed the theological implications of faith, hope, and charity from a political perspective and why people are sometimes afraid of hope, afraid to have faith, afraid of caritas, and therefore react negatively and even act out negatively to those who offer light in darkness.

The Revels show, now performed in many cities across the country since its inception 38 years ago in Cambridge, traditionally ends with the Sussex Mummers Carol.  A fitting wish to you, readers as we end the year that brought the return of faith and hope to so many in our liberal religious heritage.

God bless the mistress of this house
With gold chain round her breast;
Where e’er her body sleeps or wakes,
Lord send her soul to rest,
Lord send her soul to rest.

God bless the master of this house
With happiness beside;
Where e’er his body rides or walks,
Lord Jesus be his guide.
Lord Jesus be his guide.

God bless your house, your children too,
Your cattle and your store;
The Lord increase you day by day,
And give you more and more.
And give you more and more.

(Listen to an MP3 version online here - not the Revels)

I Don't Get It

There are a lot things in this life I just don’t get.  I don’t get mosquitos. I don’t get why there is no play-off system in college football. I don’t get why America re-elected (OK elected, he didn’t really win the first time) George W. Bush in 2004 after Dubya lied to us about Weapons of Mass Destructions, chipped away at the constitution, made America a torturing regime, spied on our own citizens, and was obviously the worst – president – ever (OK, except possibly for James Buchanan and Herbert Hoover).  So Barack Obama’s selection of Rick Warren, pastor of the Evenagelical Saddleback megachurch and author of the mega-best selling The Purpose Driven Life to give the invocation at the inauguration leaves me, like so many others, completely and utterly dumbfounded.  I am in a total and utter static-driven maze of I don’t get it.

I hope there is a rabbit to be pulled out the hat.  I hope there has been some serious back room, Chicago politics type negotiations and serious heart to heart faith sharing that has had a Demascus Road effect Warren and that he will pray for acceptance of gay and lesbian people in our society on inauguration day.  But I am not holding my breath.  That’s why I don’t get it.

I hear Marvin Gaye singing “What’s Goin’ On” in the background.  Here’s Why I don’t get it in Rick Warren’s own words.

From The Nation, 2005:

He spoke of the tyranny of activist judges,” who obstruct the will of the majority, he evinces no understanding of minority rights or the judiciary’s role in enforcing them. Explaining his views about homosexuality and gay rights, he notes, “I don’t think that homosexuality is the worst sin,” and, “By the way, my wife and I had dinner at a gay couple’s home two weeks ago. So I’m not [a] homophobic guy, okay?”

Warren’s desire to avoid discussions of issues like abortion, stem cell research and gay rights seems genuine, and is obviously wise. His success derives in part from his focus on crusades that unite people–the alleviation of global poverty and disease. But his faith (like that of others) is inherently divisive. At the end of the day, God is a divider, not a uniter: Non-Christians, however devout, go to hell, along with nonbelievers, whom Warren regards, quite conventionally, as overcome by existential angst and essentially amoral. Without God, “life would have no purpose or meaning,” he asserts. “There would be no right or wrong.”

it is unrealistic to expect people who believe that salvation requires embracing Christ to accept secular laws and practices that defy what they consider His teachings. From their perspective, your liberty may be the least of what’s at stake. People who respect your right to go to hell may have little regard for laws that tempt their children to go with you.

And here’ s Pastor Warren not getting gay on Larry King Live:

KING: All right, but if you desire another man and you’re a man and you’re an adult, who are you harming if the two of you agree and it’s your life?

WARREN: Yes.

KING: It’s not Rick Warren’s life or Larry King’s life. It’s their life.

WARREN: Well, again, I would just say I think to me the issue is, is it natural? Is it the natural thing? I mean here’s an interesting thing I have to ask. How can you believe in Darwin’s theory of evolution and homosexuality at the same time? Now think about this.

If Darwin was right, which is survival of the fittest then homosexuality would be a recessive gene because it doesn’t reproduce and you would think that over thousands of years that homosexuality would work itself out of the gene pool.

KING: So, we take the reverse. The creator then approves of it.

WARREN: Well, I believe…

KING: Darwin’s wrong. The creator is right. Gays are right.

WARREN: Yes well, of course, I believe that God created one man for one woman for life. A lot of the problems — as a pastor I’ve notice that when God gives certain rules they’re really for our benefit. They’re not because God’s capricious or just “I think that I’m going to make your life miserable.”

Perhaps, most importantly at this moment in history, here’s Warren on Prop 8:

“If you believe what the Bible says about marriage,” he declared on his website, “you need to support Proposition 8.”

That is, you need to be against equal marriage rights for all people (to be clear, if you believe the Bible, says Warren, you need to be against gay marriage).

Warren’s Saddleback Church has, according to ex-members who have been through it, a ministry that tries to “cure” people of their gayness.  Here’s a comment from Andrew Sullivan’s Atlantic blog Daily Dish:

Most people probably don’t know this, but Warren’s Saddleback Church has a Friday night program called Celebrate Recovery. …There is also a group for those who struggle with “same sex attraction”, the discourse of which is directly borrowed from the ex-gay movement. I know this, of course, because I was involved with the group in Spring of 2007.

I agree with Andrew Sullivan – “I fought against the Christianism of Bush for this?”

We are at a moment in our national history that is allowing us to name our issues, name our reality, own our pain, own our history.  We can talk for the moment about race, if we choose to seize it. We can talk, for the moment about sexuality if we choose to seize it. We can talk, for the moment about equality and the promise of America, if we choose to seize it.  We can talk, for the moment about the false promise of unchecked capitalism and the philosophy of greed, if we choose to seize it.  OR we can remain silent once again, retreat into political expediency and over compromise, and miss the moment.

Barack Obama has created a moment in time that allows a political ripeness.  Seasons like this come along to infrequently to waste on the rotten fruit of the gospel of hate and exclusion.  That’s why I don’t get the selection of Rick Warren.

The selection of Rick Warren creates a creeping distrust in me. I’ve encountered his kind up close.  Those who speak of Christ and pretend to good works, but hold out salvation as if Jesus Christ was their own personal invention, a gift they made in their own garage workshop to give as they see fit to whoever meets their own personal standard of righteousness.  They dress it up in nice language, clothing hate and discrimination in the words of love.  In many ways, they are worse than the Phelps crowd. At least you know where the Phelps folks stand and as hurtful as they are, they don’t prentend to be anythin less or anything different.

My hope was that Obama would use the inauguration to make a bold speech to America along the lines of his speech on race last February. Instead it looks like he’s actually supporting some of the worst of the last 8 years.  What’s Goin’ On? I don’t get it.  Disappointed isn’t nearly a strong enough word.

This past fall our church held a prayer service in support of gay rights on the town square here in Southlake, TX.  We had no idea what the reaction would be.  The event itself was rather uneventful, but media coverage of the event, spurred this response.

This ad ran in about 12 local weekly papers on the same day.  Granted, as President of the United States, Barack Obama has more to lose it could be argued than a small UU congregation in Texas for standing up for gay rights, but I want him to anyway.   I want a President who has more courage than I do, not less.  I want a President who has less fear than I do, not more.  I want a President who would rather be on the side of justice than on the side of winning re-election.  But what do I know? I don’t get much.

Solstice and Christmas at Pathways

Pathways Church, a Unitarian Universalist GLBTQ Welcoming Congregation in Southlake, invites everyone to open and inclusive Christmas Eve services at the church’s South Nolen Drive location. There will be two services on Christmas Eve, one at 6:00 p.m. and another at 10:00 p.m.  The 6:00 p.m. service will feature our contemporary liturgical group as well as our Christmas choir and a short Russian Folk Tale dramatization for children.  The 10:00 p.m. service will feature more traditional music.  Both services will follow a “lessons and carols” format and end with the lighting of candles to the singing of Silent Night.

Pathways Church is an intergenerational, non-creedal, GLBTQ-affirming faith community. If you are looking for an open and accepting place to celebrate Winter Solstice and Christmas, we welcome you to join us on December 21st and on Christmas Eve.

The Pathways boutique and bookstore will include holiday gift items during the month of December.  Fair trade coffees, hand crafted jewelry and fabric art, and greeting cards by local artisans will be featured.  The gift shop is open on Sundays before and after our 10:00 a.m. service.

Everyone Else is They

The promise of America, as the latin motto goes and the new president (okay, president-elect) has been fond of quoting is “e pluribus unum” or “out of many, one.”  And yet we still struggle with acheiving this attitude that everyone belongs in the one; that except for the people who were native to this land when Europeans arrived, none of us have any real claim to it and if we are to continue to make a life here together, everybody must come to be included in the we of we the people, the one, the unum.

I think of Rudyard Kipling’s poem:

All good people agree,
And all good people say,
All nice people, like Us, are We
And every one else is They:
But if you cross over the sea,
Instead of over the way,
You may end by (think of it!) looking on We
As only a sort of They!

We persist in dividing into us and them instead of we.  Today there is this gem in the Fort Worth Star Telegram about the state of Texas requiring anyone who is late in renewing a driver’s license by even one day to produce a birth certificate in order to renew (they’ll also take a passport). Ostensibly this is meant to catch people who are here in Texas illegally (I guess the Caddo, Apache, Tonkwa, Lipans, Coahuiltecans, and Comanche are waiting for all of us to be late in renewing our driver’s licenses).  Who’s it going to “get”? Grandma and Grandpa.

“Some older Texans are not going to have birth certificates,” Burnam said. “They were born in a wood-frame shack 80 years ago, or the courthouse doesn’t have the records anymore. Or they simply never had to prove it.”

The same rule brought a backlash from older Oklahomans last year after that state passed a draconian immigration law.

The denial that the law isn’t racist is funny, if it wasn’t funny.

“We’re not saying this is racist. We’re saying that the people who will be punished the most by this rule are native-born Texans.”

But he worries that minorities or people speaking other languages will be confronted more often for identification.

Um, ah, if minorities or people speaking other languages will be confronted more often because of something, then that’s a clue that something most likely has racist implications.

I read about this today, the morning after Tina came home from school with a story that one of her students will be returning to Mexico because although here with her father, the child’s mother and man’s wife was not granted permission to enter the country and dad just can’t go without his partner any longer and without help raising the girls any longer.   I was too sad and depressed to muster any outrage because, well, after growing up a Reagan Baby and living through the last eight years, I just don’t expect anything different from America.  I’m hopeful things will change.  Now, the child’s mom could be a convicted felon or a drug trafficker or a terrorist – there’s the possibility that there was a very good reason for saying no to the woman, but I’m going to admit to having grown thick cynical skin on this and wonder if she wasn’t just another middle aged mom from Mexico who happened to be, well, Mexican.

When your government lies to you about the reasons for starting wars, spies on its own citizens, dismisses department of justice employees for political reasons, engages in torture of it enemies and locks up people who even “look” like terrorists, one grows a thick skin on such matters.  Hope floats in the air, but it hasn’t landed anywhere with decision making power yet.

My favorite theologian Bruce Springsteen tells many parables of the Mexican immigrant.  The most powerful and understated is Matamoros Banks.  It’s sung in the voice of a Mexican would be illegal immigrant who never made it across the river.  It’s a “reverse” biography, the story begins from the point of view of the floating corpse in the river, as far as this man ever made it to the U.S. and tells the tale that led to that point. Bruce says this about the song:

Each year many die crossing the deserts, mountains, and rivers of our southern border in search of a better life. Here I follow the journey backwards, from the body at the river bottom, to the man walking across the desert towards the banks of the Rio Grande.

It’s a simple song, set to an acoustic guitar:

For two days the river keeps you down
Then you rise to the light without a sound
Past the playgrounds and empty switching yards
The turtles eat the skin from your eyes, so they lay open to the stars

Your clothes give way to the current and river stone
‘Till every trace of who you ever were is gone
And the things of the earth they make their claim
That the things of heaven may do the same
Goodbye, my darling, for your love I give God thanks,
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros banks

Over rivers of stone and ancient ocean beds
I walk on sandals of twine and tire tread
My pockets full of dust, my mouth filled with cool stone
The pale moon opens the earth to its bones
I long, my darling, for your kiss, for your sweet love I give God thanks
The touch of your loving fingertips
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros banks

Your sweet memory comes on the evenin’ wind
I sleep and dream of holding you in my arms again
The lights of Brownsville, across the river shine
A shout rings out and into the silty red river I dive
I long, my darling, for your kiss, for your sweet love I give God thanks
A touch of your loving fingertips
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros
Meet me on the Matamoros banks

I borrow here from my sermon The Parablist, about Bruce Springsteen, on his song The Line -

The story in the song “The Line”  is a parable about the conflict between two virtues, justice and loyalty, or duty and love.  The narrator of “The Line” is a recently discharged and widowed military vet named Carl who goes to work for the INS on the California Border Patrol.  There he meets a friend

Bobby Ramirez was a ten-year veteran

We became friends

his family was from Guanajuato

so the job it was different for him

He said’ “They risk death in the deserts and mountains”

pay all they got to the smugglers rings,

we send ‘em home and they come right back again

Carl, hunger is a powerful thing.”

Bobby Ramirez and Carl dance and drink in Mexican bars with the same people they send back across the line. Carl meets a woman named Louisa and falls in love.   Then one night on patrol he sees her…

she climbed into my truck

she leaned towards me and we kissed

as we drove her brother’s shirt slipped open

and I saw the tape across his chest

Why so many stories of illegal immigrants? Perhaps because it is their story we don’t understand and thus we don’t understand why so many come and why we need to welcome more people with open arms and have less restrictive immigration policies.  In a time when the world economy and our own domestic economy is in upheaval this going to be harder to get people to accept.  There will be fewer jobs, there will be less to go around, but still there will be more here than anywhere else in the world.

Twenty years ago Lou Reed sang not about the Statue of Liberty, but the Statue of Bigotry in his song Dirty Blvd:

Give me your hungry, your tired your poor I’ll piss on ‘em
That’s what the Statue of Bigotry says
Your poor huddled masses, let’s club ‘em to death
and get it over with and just dump ‘em on the boulevard

Now twenty years on I want that statue to be the statue of hope it once was, not a statue of false and fanatic patriotism, blindly following leaders a flag wrong or right, but a genuine beacon of hope for a better life to a world that needs somewhere to go, fulfilling the words justifiably once mocked:

“Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed to me.
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.”

We can’t do this while indiscriminately sending home one parent and one partner and breaking up families due to fears of terrorism and puffed out proud chests of America first.  Unless you’ve got some pure native blood, none of belong here, really.  We are all the immigrant of some past time, tempest tossed to this place and this time, to make a better place and a better time within the time and place we’ve been given.

Chirstmas is about presence not presents

Tip of the santa cap to Chalice Chick and the Advent Conspiracy.

Last year my good friend Rev. Hank Peirce, the minister of the Unitarian Universalist Church in Medford, MA asked his church to cut their holiday gift budget in half from the previous year (2006) and give the difference to charity. He far exceeded his goal of raising $5,000 for organizations doing what Jesus talked about: feeding the poor, clothing the naked, taking care of the sick, housing the homeless. In a piece that ran in his local Medford paper last year, Hank said, that the average American spends around $800 on Christmas, but at Hank’s congregation the figure was closer to $650, and the total spent by the entire congregation was upwards of $40,000.
That’s an amazing amount of money on Ninento Wii’s and Tickle Me Elmos. Our household has been conscious of the American overconsumption frenzy at Christmas for a number of years now, baking and making gifts and focusing on spending less and doing more, but Hank’s project kicked it into another gear.
Hank got the idea from the UU Church in Rochester, NY where Ministers Scott Taylor and Karen Anderson challenged their congregation to cut their holiday spending in half and raise $50,000 for charity. The Rochester congregation responded by raising $68,000. What did the Rochester church do with the money? – $18,000 went to a relief fund for well digging in Honduras and $50,000 went toward a charity for families who have suffered from inner city violence.

Why Prop 8 passed in CA

The current issue of Rolling Stone magazine has an interesting report on why Prop 8 succeeded in CA.  The report centers its blame not on African American support for Prop 8 or millions of dollars pumped into the pro 8 effort by the Mormons, but instead looks at the lousy job of political organizing by anti-8 (pro gay rights) folks in CA.

The No on Prop 8 campaign, meanwhile, was oblivious to the formidable field operation that the other side was mounting. Worse, its executive committee refused to include leaders of top gay and lesbian grass-roots organizations, which deprived them of an army of willing foot soldiers. “We didn’t have people going door to door,” admits Yvette Martinez, the campaign’s political director. The field operation consisted of volunteers phone-banking from 135 call centers across the state, an effort that didn’t begin ramping up until mid-October.

I spent a lot of time working on the marriage equality campaign in Massachusetts.  I saw it up close and personal.  I watched it and took part in it.   l lost track of how many doors I knocked on, how many people I personally talked to face to face and asked them to talk to their legislators.  It must have numbered in the thousands, not the hundreds. I saw how the people at Mass Equality and the Religious Coalition for the Freedom to Marry planned and executed a near flawless game plan to preserved the Mass Supreme Judicial Court Ruling.  Reading the Rolling Stone report, if the truth on the ground was anywhere near the reality reported, it’s no wonder gay rights supporters lost.

The Yes on 8 campaign’s get-out-the-vote effort was equally prodigious. The weekend before the vote, Schubert’s religious volunteers once again went door to door, speaking to supporters and directing them to the right precinct locations. “On Election Day,” he says, “we had 100,000 people — five per precinct — checking voter rolls and contacting supporters who hadn’t showed up to vote.”

By contrast, the No on Prop 8 campaign mobilized just 11,000 volunteers on Election Day, which they deployed to polling locations to hold “Vote No on 8″ signs. The campaign even turned away volunteers who were unable to attend a sign-holding training seminar. Terry Leftgoff, a veteran campaign consultant who was once the highest-ranking gay officer in the California Democratic Party, was one of those who was informed that his services weren’t needed. “I was told I could come by on November 5th and help clean up a campaign office,” Leftgoff says.

The mistakes seemed so elementary, it’s almost hard to believe the report. Yet knowing how possible it is to win on the ground politically on this issue, I’m really left wondering.  If the reports in the article are true, I’d have to agree with a Democratic consultant quoted in the article: “This was political malpractice.”

The biggest act of political malpractice was not taking the opposition seriously. I learned this lesson knocking on doors in Massachusetts.  Supporters of civil rights, which polling shows to be a good majority of Americans, don’t always understand how important it is to make their voice heard on issues such as this until it is too late.  Narrow minded, intolerant, bigoted voices are loud and harsh and quick to raise money on behalf of ignorance and hatred and therefore splash both the media and their elected officials with the idea that popular cultural opinion takes their side while the reality is actually the opposite.  By the time pro gay rights folk woke up in CA it was way too late, they were millions of dollars and double digit percentage points behind.  Never take for granted that because a viewpoint that you hold is intelligent, sensible, educated, fair and just that it’s obvious to others.  You have to make your voice heard.  Democracy requires constant participation, not just a trip to the polls every two or four years.

I fear that the only way forward after this loss in CA is through the courts so that there won’t be an endless cycle (and the slippery slope) of voting on people’s civil rights, because once we vote to take away one group’s rights, who’s next?  The rapid response to reversing the trend on the prop 8 shows the way our country is headed on this issue, but we do need to come to a consensus that there are certain things that are not up for a vote, certain human rights that no majority can take from a minority.  That’s a lesson I hope we learn from this as we prepare for human rights day tomorrow.

Reclaiming Advent

Reclaiming Advent is good for Unitarian Universalist souls.  So many festivals of light come together at this time of year: Hanukkah, Solstice, Christmas and Kwanzaa.  There are also Bodhi Day (celebrating the day Buddha gained enlightenment) and Human Rights Day (for me, an old Amnesty International veteran, with it’s symbol of a candle wrapped in barbed wire), two more important days in the month of December reflecting symbols of light at our hearts and minds.

Although Advent is strictly speaking a Christian observance, and a rather recent one, not really establishing itself in the liturgical calendar until the Middle Ages when it became a Lenten-like preparation for Christmas and the second coming of Christ that began with the feast of  St. Martin on November 11, I think the season lends itself to much worthy spiritual discipline and practices for Unitarian Universalists no matter what their spiritual path.

Any season that has us focus on our spiritual life in a renewed manner is a good one.  The word Advent comes from the Latin Adventus which mean “coming” or “arrival.”  The Christian focus is on the coming of Jesus at Christmas (and in some Christian eschatological traditions, the second coming of Jesus at the end of time). Yet in this season we also await the arrival of the sun, and the lengthening of days as we celebrate Solstice.  We await the arrival of Kwanzaa to celebrate African America heritage.

Waiting and patience is a central spiritual theme, practice and discipline of Advent for Christians, but it is also one that applies to our other December holy days as well.  We wait for the oil in the temple to last for the Maccabees during the days and nights of Hanukkah.  We wait, simply sitting with the Buddha to gain enlightenment.  We wait for human rights to be respected for everyone, everywhere and mark December 10, Human Rights Day to celebrate the victories and the tears of the struggle for human rights around the world.  We wait for the sun to return to higher and higher in the sky in each day, giving us light and life.

The traditional length of Advent is four weeks, each with a theme: faith, hope, joy and love.  Celebrating each of these spiritual themes is good and right any time, in any tradition.

Advent takes on a special meaning socially and politically this year for so many of us in the United States as we await the transition to a new presidential administration and hope that it brings for the crisis that confront our nation and our world.

Advent is a season that tells us, as Bob Marley sang, “Out of darkness, there must come out a light.”